IMP #1

Being Kind is Free

Tonight, March 13th 2026, I found a video that tells a story of how being kind in the world is free. But while in a deep thought and from my experiences, being kind isn't free. When being kind, you sacrifice your passion of wanting to do your hobby or the pursue of your dreams. From my experiences of being kind, very often I became a "people-pleaser". I said yes to everytime they ask me to do somethings, but since starting senior highschool I start learning to say no when people ask and I don't want to do it. But there is times that even when I don't want to. From there, I started to saw the harsh truth of the world. When being kind, it is often that we forgot to prioritize ourselves first. From there, kindness can be emotionally draining. When that happens, we start seeing the world in our own perspective and seeing it in different ways than others. In situation like that, I usually like to talk with others as it is a way for me to recharge and come back as a person. 

I, myself, is an extroverted person who find joy through relation and connection. Plus the fact that my love language is quality time, fits perfectly with my extrovertness. But with all that personality, I still can't find a place to talk, to recharge, to be me, to be free.